The Engineer's Love Life (gender fair)

An architect, an artist and an engineer were discussing whether it was better to spend time with the spouse or a lover.

The architect said, "I enjoyed time with my spouse, building a solid foundation for an enduring relationship.

The artist said, "I enjoyed time with my lover, because of the passion and mystery I found there."

The engineer said, "I like both."

"Both?" they questioned.

The Engineer said, "Yeah. If you have a spouse and a lover, they will each assume you are spending time with the other one, and you can go to the lab and get some work done."